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GET TO THE SOURCE

Have you ever walked into a beautiful room only to be slapped by an unpleasant odor? Yesterday, I fried some chicken for my children. I can’t remember the last time I fried chicken, but I did so yesterday because I had to make dinner in a hurry for them and I didn’t have enough time […]

Words Never to Say to a Child By Aya Fubara Eneli, M.A., J.D.

Words are singularly the most powerful force available to humanity. We can choose to use this force constructively with words of encouragement, or destructively using words of despair. – Yehuda Berg Maybe it was the trauma of losing 4 children or the exposure to broken children of all ages that I have served across two […]

Steps to an Exceptional New Year! By Aya Fubara Eneli, MA., JD

It’s been a tough year for far too many people. Nations have been decimated by the scourges of natural and man-made disasters. Families are mourning the losses of loved ones. Fairy tale weddings full of hope have ended in betrayal, pain and divorce. Children have been displaced, their once idyllic lives now fraught with tension […]

3 Keys to Maximizing Your Time with your Child

You are up at the crack of done, rushing to get yourself and your child ready and out the door so you can make It to work on time. There is no time to play around or to appease your still groggy child. You drop off your child with a quick hug your mind already […]

Help! I’m Married and Dying a Slow Death

  Aya Fubara Eneli, M.A., JD Recently, I polled 83 women about their marriages and although I know the statistics on divorce, I was astonished at results of my poll. A whopping 76 of the 83 women polled indicated that they are unhappy with their marriages. Approximately half would consider divorce if they could work […]

Power of Purpose, Passion and Persistence

Aya Fubara Eneli, MA, JD A wise person once said that too often we miss out on the greatest opportunities in our lives because they come disguised as hard work. Survey a group of people and most would like to be comfortable – have expendable income, live in a nice house, drive nice cars, go […]

Driven from Within

By Aya Fubara Eneli, Esq. She fantasized about a simpler life, one not so fraught with anxiety about her bills and her future. He is tired of languishing in obscurity and longs for a promotion, an opportunity to showcase his talents and his skills. They stopped dreaming years ago, bruised and broken by one setback […]

BEAUTY FOR ASHES

It was 5:30 in the morning and the sun was still asleep. My husband had long been called to the emergency room in service of others. I lay in bed alone with tears scalding my cheeks. In that moment I had never felt so burdened, so sad, so confused, so alone, so hopeless. The loss […]